idk who needs to hear this but trying to delineate who's 'really' nonbinary and who's not is itself cisnormative. absence of firm boundaries is the entire point of the thing


there's a lot of pressure in certain, i would like to say mostly online, queer spaces to cordon non-binary people into only having certain types of relationships to the gender binary; and it sucks deep ass, moreso because it's often nonbinary people doing it

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