If they see trans people as pitiful uwu lost causes, they will just write you off as another typical poor trans person when you need help. It's like they decided it's your lot in life.
All my friends and family "supported" me in that they used the right pronouns, but the people who actually gave me a place to stay and paid me back money they owed or donated money to help me are a distinct subset of the first group. I had plenty of people who "supported" me actively causing me problems and refusing to help after promising me everything would be fine and they'd have my back.
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