Honestly it's not the content of all this disability stuff that bothers me--it's how these threads are so often framed as a definitive guide. Like a cheat sheet for neurotypical people to refer to when interacting with person of X disability. That is just so harmful.
Literally all it takes to change the narrative is to say, "This is my experience, I'm sharing in case it helps others with similar experiences."
monads.online is a place for friends